{"id":1291,"date":"2019-09-24T13:04:41","date_gmt":"2019-09-24T13:04:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.gunderwealth.com\/?p=1291"},"modified":"2019-11-25T16:55:24","modified_gmt":"2019-11-25T16:55:24","slug":"do-you-lie-when-your-doctor-asks-this-question","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.gunderwealth.com\/do-you-lie-when-your-doctor-asks-this-question\/","title":{"rendered":"Do you lie when your doctor asks this question&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22.3&#8243;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/www.gunderwealth.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Canva-Trust-300&#215;199.jpg&#8221; force_fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; align_tablet=&#8221;center&#8221; align_phone=&#8221;&#8221; align_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;3.27.1&#8243;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.0.6&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243;]<\/p>\n<h2>&#8220;How many drinks do you have per week?&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p>Do you hide from that question?\u00a0 \u200bWhy is that?\u00a0 Is it a trust issue?\u00a0 Do you feel like you\u2019ll be judged or lectured to change your habits?\u00a0 Or do you feel like you can fudge that number as that information seems insignificant to your overall health?\u00a0 Maybe you know it\u2019s an issue and you\u2019re choosing to ignore it?<\/p>\n<p>Has your doctor ever asked you to define your health goals?\u00a0 Would that help you establish a baseline of trust if she did?\u00a0 Or maybe your goals are discussed but you feel as though your social habit isn\u2019t preventing you from reaching them, so holding that info back doesn\u2019t seem like a lie?<\/p>\n<p>What about your financial advisor \u2013 are you honest about your spending habits, or is it easier to hide from that too?\u00a0 I\u2019m sure you see where I\u2019m going here.\u00a0 Nearly <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fa-mag.com\/news\/americans-reticent-about-personal-finances--survey-say-51380.html\">30% of clients say they hide their spending habits from advisors<\/a>.\u00a0 No doubt about it \u2013 discussing finances is a vulnerable topic for most.\u00a0 But, if you sought professional help, wouldn\u2019t you want to choose someone you trust?\u00a0 It is your future after all.<\/p>\n<p>Plain and simple \u2013 a financial advisor should work with you to define your goals and create a roadmap to get there.\u00a0 If there are obstacles in the way (i.e. emotions, bad habits, debt, life events), those can be addressed so that your roadmap is tailored specifically for you.\u00a0 This conversation unquestionably can be stressful and oftentimes embarrassing \u2013 not only with your advisor but also between spouses.\u00a0 But if your goals are important to you, then tackling those obstacles a little bit at a time is hopefully a manageable task.\u00a0 If not, then it\u2019s time to go back to the drawing board on those aspirations of yours.<\/p>\n<p>You should be able to trust your advisor. 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